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Business Phrases

Choose a Phrase to Discover the PtT Lesson

"You're Killing Me Smalls"

Understanding that Context Matters

"Don’t Fight Back. Fight Forward."

Tap into a Ted Lasso Leadership Principle

"You are Drowning in Noise"

Tune your Antennas to pickup the signals that Drive Success

"You BLITZ All Night!"

Take a play out of the Remember the Titians Movie

"You're Killing Me, Smalls!"

The movie The Sandlot offers a powerful analogy for an inexperienced professional climbing the ladder in a large corporation.

You are Smalls—the main character—navigating a steep learning curve as you grow within your company. At first, you know nothing about the business world (just as Smalls knows nothing about baseball). Through practice, effort, and repetition, you begin to improve. Your focus narrows to executing what’s directly in front of you. The game starts to slow down. You make successful plays that help the team win.

As you gain confidence and take on leadership or management roles, you start to think, I’m getting the hang of this game.

 

Then a major moment arrives.

For the first time, you are responsible for making the right call.

The team is waiting for an action to keep progress moving, so you step up and act. Your intent is good—you want to help the team. You hit what feels like a home run. Then the joy fades as reality sets in: something might be wrong.

 

What surprises you most isn’t the mistake—it’s the reaction.

 

Leaders around you are alarmed. Confused. Upset.

They ask, “How could you do this?”

 

And you don’t understand why the response feels so extreme.

 

What’s missing?
Context.

 

You didn’t know the importance of the ball.

 

The Lesson

When your work or decisions reach the level of VPs, Senior VPs, the CEO, or the Board, you must recognize one thing:


The ball is signed by Babe Ruth.

 

At higher levels of leadership, intent and execution are no longer enough. Context matters. Visibility matters. History matters.

Before you act, you must understand what’s truly at stake—and who is watching.

Don’t Fight Back, Fight Forward

(Warning Explicit Language) 

One of the most overlooked leadership mistakes is the urge to fight back.

When leaders are criticized, challenged, or undermined, the instinct is to respond — to defend, explain, or retaliate. But fighting back pulls you into someone else’s frame. It forces you to play on their battlefield, on their timeline, about their issue.

That is how distractions gain power.

PtT leaders understand something different:
Momentum is leverage

When you fight forward, you redirect energy away from conflict and toward progress. You focus on:

  • Building capability
  • Delivering results
  • Strengthening culture
  • Advancing the mission

Progress makes opposition irrelevant. Execution dissolves criticism.
Fighting back creates noise | Fighting forward creates outcomes.

The most effective leaders don’t win arguments — they change reality.
So don’t get pulled into sideways battles & don’t let others set your agenda.

Don’t fight back.
Fight forward!

You are Drowning in Noise

“Signal vs. Noise” is one of the most important mental models a successful business leader uses.

 

Noise is information that feels important but does not change decisions.

 

Examples of noise:
News headlines | Social-media outrage | Rumors | Internal corporate drama | One-off comments

Noise is loud, emotional, and frequent. It creates the illusion of motion, but it does not move outcomes.

 

Signal is information that changes incentives, constraints, or power.

Signal is usually quiet, slow, and sometimes boring—but it is decisive. Signal is where the future is actually being written. Noise tells stories, while signal controls money, resources, and movement.

Learn to ignore the noise that surrounds you and tune your antenna to the signals that drive real success as a leader.

“If you want to be dangerous, learn to read signal.”

 

Application

Noise inside a business can be hard to recognize. It often shows up as comments, opinions, or written communication that feels urgent but does not change direction.

The key questions to ask yourself are:

  • What direction or outcome does leadership or the customer truly want?

  • Does this information change priorities, resources, or decisions?

Signals change what matters. If it does not change action, it is likely just noise.

You BLITZ All Night!

Business can often be process-focused and slow. The work is important, but the urgency is not at its highest level day to day. There is margin and buffer in the system that allows issues to be worked at a reasonable pace and during normal hours.

 

But there are rare moments when urgency has to go to 100%. The margin is gone, and the issue has grown into a fire that will have a significant impact on the business. These situations often seem unfair, or the teams that dropped the ball don’t show the level of drive required to recover from an issue that is putting success at risk.

 

In these moments, many freeze up. But a protect-the-team leader locks in—like Coach Yoast from Remember the Titans—and communicates clearly to their team:

 

“We blitz all night”

 

This means we turn urgency up to the max and pursue the art of the possible to find a path to a solution. This isn’t pie-in-the-sky thinking. It’s attacking the problem from all angles and refusing to accept the status quo.

 

The key to the blitz is that the switch must be felt by all parties. Leaders must clearly communicate why it matters and rally their teams so everyone participates in the recovery, using their talents and experience to problem-solve.

 

So when the moment arrives — lead the BLITZ, and your teams will follow.

Leave no doubt.

MEAT Description

“For everyone who lives on milk is unskilled in the word of righteousness, since he is a child. But solid food is for the mature, for those who have their powers of discernment trained by constant practice”  (Hebrews 5:13-14, ESV)

Meat symbolizes the solid food of deeper features of a lesson. The difference is not in kind of truth, but degree of depth. The information that is contained in the Meat category for the PtT principles is prepared for the mature consumer that is aware that it takes time and effort to understand, practice, master, and then coach others.

Avoid stunting your leadership growth with a liquid only diet, be willing to sacrifice more time-consuming denser media (ie books / etc.). Commit to being vulnerable enough to evaluate yourself, identify the opportunities for change and then live out leadership principles.